Something true I have found in a Magazin

For all those who can only speak English: Sorry, this extract is in German because it's from a German Student-Magazine. It deals about the difference of Approach-Agressiveness from an Argentina-guy and a German-guy. The Argentina one nearly jumped to the girl like a predator to its victim, scaring the girl away. The German guy instead was too shy and "too nice" to approach the girl, even he was very interested. In the End - that's what I think it's interesting in this extract - the girl (= author of the extract)says that she wants a perfect mixture between agressiveness (you have the NUTS to apporach her) but also a gentleman-like shyness (which makes you more intersting and not like a scary predator).

I think this confirms the Alpha-but-Fluffy-theory. You need to have a frame and the balls to lead your life and the woman and to get what you want, but you have to do this in a way which will make people loving you and also make them forgiving you very quickly.
The perfect "Alpha" is not being an Egoist and an arrogant guy, but being a guy who loves and lives his life and knows how to gain the goals without hurting others too much. It's difficult to explain... better read the book of Lodovico Satana (Endless_enigma) "Lob des Sexismus" (also german). He explains this balance in his book very well!


Source: Unicum - Feb. 2009, p. 6 (German Student-Magazine), www.unicum.de

Breaking the Silence

Hi,

the last post in this blog was January, 11th, 2009. Oh dear! That was pretty a long time ago! Time flies and it really does this real fast! Though, this is normal if a lot in your life is happening and you have no clue how to get more free time for other stuff.

Anyways - what has happened in the PU-Scene? Well, besides that I got another Nuberclose while I was just shopping for Jeans (no flake NC, just phoned with her a while ago, very sweet one!) or just practised some Gaming while I was waiting for the train or while I was IN the train or I just had a great party with a lot of fun with everyone and therefore also got a lot of IOIs?! Nothing ...

... except of that I have found the best opener in the world. It's the most simple and efficient opnener. It's the most natural one! It's just... "Hi!". Yes, it's THAT simple! Even the PUA-Natural "Juggler" from Australia says the same.

Anything else? Mmh... well, I had a very interesting breakfast chit-chat with a great friend. He doesn't know anything about the PU Scene (I think so!) but is a very good Natural gamer. We chatted about women and also little about flirt. I want to tell you one thing we BOTH said and which is TRUE: Gaming girls is not THAT difficult like most people think! Why's that? Well: Most guys have AA and cannot approach a girl in a normal or C&F way. They just stand around in a corner and just glance over. Of course the girls won't approach because of the unwritten society-rules! (Though they often break this rule and try to give the guys some motivation with little "actions"!) But the Ladies WANT to be approached! They aren't just sitting for hours in front of the mirror and choose the most skimpy-sexy outfits they have when they go out for parites for just nothing!

It's true that girls aren't thinking about sex that often like we guys do. Though it does NOT mean that they never think about it! In fact: They can have really really dirty thoughts!

Well, now I think that's enough for today and also enough for breaking the silence!

Go with the flow!

TJ

2009 Goals

1. Keep healthy, having success with my study-life, have a huge amount of fun! My life is mine and my only real wealth!

2. I want to get an improvement with my voice. I want to improve myself just for me!

3. Enjoy my life!

Life is good, Life is good, Enjoy Yourself!

Lair-Meeting & Street-Sarging

Hey,

today I went to the local Lair-Meeting in R. We guys just met about 3.15 p.m. (though some came later... ) in front of a Restaurant. We introduced each other and did some little chit-chat. We were: KinK (Lair-Leader), Fiel da Puteria, Mac.D, Ouch, Versteh keine Frau and TJ (me!). Then some of us decided to go to a bigger "Shopping Mall" instead of sarging at the Christmas-Market, which was in front of our nose (I am still wondering WHY we just didn't try little sarging there... nevermind!). Then we agreed that Mac.D, who has a lot of AA, should approach one or two sets, winged by Fiel da Puteria, an advanced PU on the way to the Mall. We walked and walked, but nothing happened. Hundreds of approachable targets passed and nothing happened. I was like "Uffz, this is just nothing. Let me just do something!" So I just simply approached the girl who was walking rightway behind me.

I used this as an opener:

"What do you think, which christmas-gift is better: The one you buy in last-minute before christmas or the one you buy 2 weeks before christmas?"

Though I got no response, the girl seemed to be shy and didn't want to answer. I tried it again (repeated, calibrated little the words) and asked her also if she is acutally just last minute-shopping. I got some whisper-answer, not really understandable. I just rejected, then just talked with the others about this. They were all asking the first way: "Which opener did you use?" then we talked about which aspects were good and which I maybe shouldn't have done and which things are important. These were topics like: "You should have stopped her and talking with her whilst staying, not walking along and chatting" (I just walked along with her), "You have to speak louder and more clearly, she just didn't understand you" etc. We also said - I didn't make this mistake though - that you never should approach a woman from behind and "stop" her with a shoulder-touch. It can "shock" the girl.

Well, as far as I can remember: Mac.D didn't approach anyone on the way. He had a really high AA. But more on this later!

Then we joined the Shopping Mall and went first of all to the car of Fiel da Puerta, dropping our jackets and such. Then we 6 made 2 groups and then it was: Let's the game begin. I was with Ouch and Mac.D. Well, they started with me. I should go into a perfume shop and approach a girl with "I am looking out for a perfume for a gf, can you help me?"

Okay, so I did: I went in, passed the sales-lady with a little disarming smile because she wanted nearly to jump to me and do some consulting, then walked to the female-perfume section and found immediately a good target. She was also not bad looking (HB7.5). I just stayed next to her and looked along the shelf - she was just turning little away because she was looking to something, so I waited some more seconds - then after she turned back I just approached her with a smile and the opener. "You know I was looking out for a christmas gift for MY girlfriend. Can you suggest me some good ones?" (Ouch "spanked" me later for using "MY" instead of "A" --- )
She smiled and had a very open bodylanguage and then said: "Oh, yes sure. I like this one I have in my hand actually" I smiled and then just took the one bottle out of her hand and also took her hand, then I sprayed the perfume at the back of her hand, holding her hand, waiting a little "Let's just wait little so the perfume can make its effect", then I tugged the hand close to my nose and smelled. She just allowed everything. I said: "Not bad, but have you another one?". She smiled and said: "Sure" and was nearly jumping to the next shelf. Also - I think it was rather funny to watch this - she immediately looked out for a "probe stick" and gave me PERFUME and stick both. So I sprayed (-damn, I also sprayed my hand, the smell kept all the hours long (it still smells after 10 times handwashing) -) and tested it. I said: "I don't like this one. I would really not like this at girls. It doesn't smell good! Next!". We went to the next shelf, then before she took out the next bottle she suddenly sniffed at her hand and then offered me her hand: "Now it smells better! Smell!" I took her hand and smelled - it didn't smell too intensive anymore and was now really good - I said: "It smells really biteable!" and did some C&F. She smiled. I think I should have bitten her hand. It would have been funny to watch her - Mac.D and Ouch were laughing later about my report-comment later - reaction.

Then after twice smelling her hand I let her hand free and said: "Well, what's with that one you wanted to suggest?" She pulled out the next perfume and stick probe, but the bottle was empty. She was trying to get something out, but didn't. I took the bottle and hold it, smelled little at it, then looked to her "Well, seems to be a really favoured one... anyways.. what are you actually doing here, christmasshopping?" and from there I did the Last-Minute-Christmas-Routine again. It worked better. She responded like "It depends how the ideas are" and such.

Though then afterwards I went out of topics and couldn't build up kind of escalation and more attraction. So I said: Well, then I will go over there to this perfume...

So I rejected and went out of the shop. Mac.D and Ouch - who was walking little around in the shop - immediately wanted a report. We talked about it - both laughing and grinning. Then Ouch asked me: "Are you happy with your results?" I wondered and then said: "No!" - "Why?" - "Well, because of: It was no NC, I went out of topics and couldn't build up more comfort". Ouch was rather surprised and said: "Well, just be happy, look you have approached her and did some gaming. It didn't go bad, the results were pretty good". My answer: "Yeah, I know. I don't have that AA-Problem like many others and such. But my game needs way a lot of improving."

Then it was Mac.D's turn. He was already nervous. He should approach a girl with something I cannot remember - but should be indirect. He tried, approached a girl and got rather blown out pretty quickly. His bodylanguage just showed how he felt. He had a hand made to a fist -threatening BL- and his bodylanguage was just all artificial. So OUCH explained: If you don't know where to put your hands then slide your thumbs into your pockets so you keep them out of the way.

Then Ouch and Mac.D went into a clothing store. Ouch winged Mac.D because of his high AA, trying to give him more comfort. They were at the pants-section and took out crazy pants for them. I watched from a distance, looking halfway at male-clothings, half-way to the game of the two. A red HB7 or 8 got closer and then Ouch approached and was talking something about her opinion with the pants. They were well discussing, she was really opened. Mac.D was staying around nervous, staring to both, it was really awkward. But Ouch had a really strong frame. Later then Mac.D also talked with her - I was really happy for him that he had finally done something and it didn't go bad!- which has rescued the situation: Now she know that Ouch and Mac.D were together shopping.

But then something bad happened: The girlfriend of the HB came and was cockblocking. Both rejected then and we met all three outside again, discussing about it.

Then it was my turn again. Doing the same with another store. I should just choose crazy clothes and then ask for opinions

First of all I picked up a hat and then found a neon-yellow button-shirt. Then I was looking around... but didn't find any - in my eyes - practiseable targets . I excluded the sales-girl, who was rather hot, because I didn't want to do this with a hired gun. A big mistake! So I looked around but nothing happened. So I just blow out the location, put the things away and walked out. Ouch was rather disappointed about me, but in my eyes it was really target-free.

Then KinK joined us and we were little talking. Then we wanted to drag down Mac.D's AA with a funny thing. He should go to a sales-lady and ask for hair-removers.

But Mac.D was unfortunately blocked. I tried to convince him even with a little NLP trick, even I am not practised in it. I said: Who is your avatar - Mac.D - now take Mac.D into one hand and hold him there - now your real name - XXXXX - and pull this to your other hand. Then put your XXXXX into your pocket, just put it away and then take *shows the other hand* your avatar Mac.D, who has NO AA and put it deep into you *touches with the "half closed" hand his heart*
Unfortunately it didn't work.

Then I said: Okay, then I will take his opener. I did and did it with a for some people HB8.5 store-lady. She was smirking when she guided there. Then we talked about the hair-remover stuff, I asked her if she uses it and why she recommend it (-do you recommend it because it's extra-painful?-). She also said: Well... I think you need two packages... Then later I said: When you use this, you scream along the room, don't you. She said with a grinning "Yes I do". Then I looked to the package, then to her.. then I said: "Oh my god... well... you have to come over to me and help me with that. I will really need someone who will just pull the straps from my legs" Then her and a girl who was close to us and obviously listening were bursting in laughter. "Well, let us make an appointment. What's about this evening, hm?" She rejected "Nooo! No way!" but was bursting in laughter. Then I said "Oh, my bad.", put the package back to the shelf and said: "Well, then, take care" and left the set. Both were watching after me with a broadly smiling face and I was also grinning broadly. The others mentioned later that I am in a rather happy state and have that all big wide grinning. *grins*

Then we met us in the meeting point. But ... and Fiel da Punteria were coming late. Fiel da Punteria was with a HB in the café and couldn't eject so quickly. With ... I don't know what he did.

Then we changed groups. I was with Versteh keine Frau and Fiel da Punteria. From there on I didn't have so much fun in the game anymore - sorry guys! Fiel da Punteria was just hyperactive, didn't listen and such.
Versteh keine Frau instead was very nice, we talked, but I didn't have any motivation and concentration to open more girls. There was no system and tactic. Fiel was kamikaze-approaching and I was doing nothing.

Well, it was all blown out. My high energy went down again.

Later I approached a two set, but when I approached and did my openers I noticed the girls were younger than I thought (somewhat like 14-15). Well, I just did some gaming for practise until one of the two girls pulled her girlfriend away, because I used a neg - which was unusual for them.

Then I talked little with the guys (we joined all together again). KinK said to me I should just go to Mc-Donalds and then order for food they don't offer (e.g. Pizza) and then complain it is a bad restaurant. I did, but it was somehow without any sense. It was strange.

Mac.D left us earlier, because he had to go to an appointement. I went with Ouch and KinK to a bar and we just talked, Fiel and Versteh keine Frau practised little more and joined us later. Then we all talked little.

Later we sarged for about a half hour again, but I had 0 Energy. I was somehow exhausted psychically and Fiel hyperactive approaching didn't make anything better. So I said bye bye!


It was a nice gaming, at the end it could have been better, but it was great to meet the guys. I have to practise more and need a better system. Maybe I should use some "plan-papers".

Next week the lair is making a big theory day and I cannot come. That really sucks! Also because of: Many people would pay alot of money for just listening to such stuff and this offer for me would cost only 5,- € for the room-fee. Though I think and hope KinK will videotape this and give me a copy as promised!

Keep on sarging!

TJ "I love myself!"

Peacock Theory & Santa Clause Routine

Hey you,

well, today I tried out the peacock theory (again).

What is peacocking? Well, peacocking is that you are wearing curious, non-standard clothes or clothing accesories. With peacocking you will advertise your survival abilities to women for being unaffected by the social perssure. So therefore it will Demonstrate Higher Value (DHV).

What kind of peacocking did I do? Well, honestly it was only a very small peacocking, but the response was rather positive. I went out with dozen people to a christmas-market at the evening. Really lovely and beautifully made! So because it was just "christmassy" and I had rather trouble with my hairs I just took the Santa Claus-hat (yep, the red one with the white ball! ;) ).
No really big deal, BUT:
People really liked it and often just talked me that they "love it". Especially girls! Funnily nobody just had "the idea" to wear this too and at the christmas-market I have seen only another woman with the santa claus hat. So it was really "theme peacocking".

And I invented and tried out a routine with this too. The girls really laughed hard, though I have to improve the outgoing and the calibration.

It was like this (not exactly):
G1: Hey, really lovely hat you have there! It looks good!
Me: Yeah thanks, but you know, this won't help you! You won't get any gifts this christmas. You were a rather bad girl!
G1: Whaaat? Noooo!
G2: But I was a good one! [I think there was even a pawning]
Me: Lemme check this. You know, Santa Claus has to go with the time!
*pulls out the mobile phone, makes a gesture like I am calling the list*
Me: Oooh.. I see... well well... I know what you did last summer... so no, there won't be any gifts either!
*the guys were laughing hard, one was like "what's about me?"*
Me: Well, you... *mobile phone check action* ... you weren't the best one, but I will get over this. You will get one!
B: Oh yeah.. SO NOW GIVE IT ME!
Me: Uh what? Don't be so greedy... wait a second *mobile phone action*... okay.. now you won't get any, you were too greedy. Bad luck!
*group laughing*

Then a girl started to convince me that she is a good girl. She made a REALLY strange gesture and noise, like she wanted to convince me overdramatically.
I just turned my head and looked to the horizont, then said after a short break: "Not very convincing! Now next year you won't get any too!" (C&F). The others were laughing out loud again.

Though unfortunately I don't know a good "finish" plus this routine is dependable from the nature of the conversation. I just rejected the set after a short while and went back to my own group.

Besides all of this I just had really fun and was relaxing really in this beautiful atmosphere! (There was magic in the air! =) ) Plus somehow I got to a normal nice conversation with a sweet girl, who was just always around me or was just happy when I was talking with her. I enjoyed everything.

What do I want to say:

1. Peacocking doesn't need have to be BIG. Small but clever things can cause also an massive effect.
2. Just have fun! Don't see everything tight! Enjoy yourself!
3. Try out new things!

Keep on sarging!

TJ

P.S.: Go out to christmas-markets. They are also good sarging spots!
P.P.S.: Are you still working at your frame? (Remember last post?) Say with a smile: "I love myself!"

Introduction & First Field Report

Hey guys,

here is my first field report. Yes, this blog is really great to write down stuff about THE GAME, how I did myself in the field and where I shall improve!

First of all about myself. I am TJ, a guy who has been too nice most of the time with girls. 90% of my time I got a LJBF, the rest was rejecting from my side because I wasn’t interested. Being upset about that I couldn’t get the girls I wanted I decided to do something against this. Rather soon I got somehow to MYSTERY with his Mystery Method. First of all reading about the stuff he did I got really impressed and couldn’t really believe there was a formula behind all of this. But I bought the book (just travelling over to the States and then have a bootcamp would RUIN me completely! Mystery, heck - why are you so expensive!? I am just a student and cannot afford over 3000$ just for a camp – even when it is probably worth the money) and read it. This has happened over one and half years ago. The book had really impressed me and I tried to improve myself. Though unfortunately I got a lot of failure, so I got frustrated. Plus having had my final exams has caused me putting the book to the shelf and forget it.

After having had a lot of success with my final exams and then an offer in UK for a work placement I moved away from my old place. The chance to change opened for me again – I remembered the black book of the Venusian Arts. Though not being a motivation enough and after having heard about Neil Strauss’s (aka Style) book “The Game” I went immediately to a bigger book store in London, to the psychology segment and grabbed the book. This was a motivation booster for me! Thanks to the two books I started to improve my own frame slowly step by step. Like: Having a warm vibe and always a nice smile at your face is often an opener too! With this you break the ice! Juggler – a natural gamer – also puts importance into having a warm vibe.

I have also a funny story about what happened after I had bought “The Game” book. Though I won’t tell it you today or the blog-post will get too long! Check back someday, I will tell it you!

Starting with the details about my frame I got noticed much more and got much more better responses when I talked with people (work, on street, café, everywhere!). With this your selfconfidence also gets a boost!

Though unfortunately I had no real field-practise in parties, clubs and streetgame in UK.

One year later I moved back to my home country because I got a place to study my desired dream-subject. This moving is another new chance for me. And I am grabbing this right NOW!!

Yes – right directly I had my first days in the university, I “opened” a lot of fellow students. I just did it for finding new friends and also a group I can learn with this. Though … now it seems nearly everybody knows me and I know only a dozen of them. Fuck – I cannot remember ALL THOSE 100 of 100 names! Anyways…

I was in parties a dozen times, also with fellow students. Some went rather well (especially one of the first were very nice, I had a lot of fun and everybody just wanted to know me, be with me, girls pawned me and such – no joke, but unfortunately I didn’t response rather well!), others were just horrible (too full, not funny, bored me, I didn’t get into the vibe and I couldn’t socialize well).

Then I decided to try to boost my experiences. I checked out some forums, I was dragging more and more theory, I was sinking into a too big pool of theory… always looking out for advises… until I got this: “Don’t take too many theories. The Game is just simple, don’t think too much, just do it!”. So I decided: Okay… let me open that blog, let me give an official birth to my Avatar “TJ” (he will surely melt with me together in the future), let me start THE GAME! Then I took a little paper and wrote down simple things:

Mission 01:
- Open 5 Sets or more
- Use 5 different openers at least
- Never approach frontal!
- Use time constraint 3x, body rocking
- 3 seconds rule!
- Befriend social guys! [Important – don’t see them always as competitors!]
- Slow speaking [Jeez… I really didn’t keep to that one! Lemme practise this more! Because it has also caused me speaking faster than my brain was working… I got sometimes stuck in the middle of my sentence because I didn’t get the word]
- Use/invent 5 routines

(I also wrote down: A1 Open A2 FtMI + DHV A3 MtFI, Reward IOI)

Then: I wrote down 5 canned openers so I will have something:

1 Tattoo-Opener
2 High-Five-Opener
3 Who lies more?
4 Wet clothes Opener
5 Do you hear the light? Opener
(Plus: Lane opener as a bonus)

[Did I use one? Hrmph… to be honest.. only No 2 at my own version, none of the rest. I used natural openers related to the situation, sometimes also shooting negs]

Then I also secured some Routines:

1 Do you believe in magic? [I would have preformed even one magic trick with which I had won the attention of the half party, happened in UK; this trick is also a little escalator of emotions/tension]
2 FMK – game (fuck – marry – kill)
3 Finger Farting + eventually hug as KINO afterwards (Mystery Method)
4 Fairy – Woman to Man Routine

(Plus: Isolate  KINO (Hands/Dance)  Adventurer – Routine (P&P)  Kissclose)

[Here I also used only one Routine… and it was the BONUS one!]

That was my trick sheet.

And what was my outcome? Well, I did a lot of KINO (thank you, thank you, thank you Mystery, your “Dance-KINO” is such a BREAKER!) and most people reacted positively. Though I have to improve this too! Once I took the arm over one girl (which I thought she was very interested in me, I got plenty of IOIs in the days before too) and was just talking something into her ear (wtf – why was she just staying in the middle of the LOUD dancing floor!). Then she just pushed my arm away. Honestly I got irritated little by this reaction (wasn’t prepared, though after looking back I should have noticed she was going to push my hand away, she felt uncomfy). I am still wondering: How should I have reacted correctly? I just pushed her away with my hand (not too hard, but it wasn’t a comfy push away) and made a bored body language (“No big deal!”), then I rejected the set. Plus: WHY did she feel uncomfy? What did I miss before? Maybe was my hug locking her too much or was my neg bad (yep, it was nearly a wrestler hug because I was pointing to someone and shot a neg to her, saying that she shouldn’t be mean to him (she had pulled hard at his pullover-strings before) or he surely won’t give her any lessons anymore.)? (Any ideas? Write a comment please!)

I also noticed: Completely strangers were rather difficult to open in the party. Sometimes I also have to work little at my *%&$” AA! Sometimes I got, after using a natural opener, a quick rejection. Wrong frame? Wrong opener? Should I have used canned opener? I should fieldtest the canned openers more!

I jumped from set to set. It was absolutely fine. Mostly I didn’t stay longer than 5 min. in a set if it was just about chatting and such. I changed the set rather quickly for just not running out of routines/chat-ideas too quickly and become quiet. Normally I wanted only to try out routines, KINO and openers this evening.

But plans have changed REALLY!

I did a lot of KINO (someone advised that if you feel uncomfy about KINO, then you should do a lot so you will learn it!) and it made women stunned.

For some sets I had a really strong FRAME and showed a lot of self confidence. I was even able to move 2-3 sets COMPLETELY to places I wanted them for having fun. The dance floor was rather uncrowned (people standing around and just chatting) and the DJ was trying really his best to get the people dancing. I approached one set who was half dancing, I opened (I knew a girl in there, it was a 6-girl-set, 5 strangers for me) and then “pushed” (with KINO and also dancing) two more or less to the dancefloor. What happened? The girls were connected to the set like a rubber strap (I tired EXTRA not to make it to an isolation!) and therefore PULLED the whole set over to the rather uncrowned place, they were DANCING! 3 min. later I left the set and walked over to another one I had opened before. I used little KINO and then just used some kind of FRAME and pulled the girls piece by piece over to the dancefloor. The same with the third set. And you know what was so great for me? The girls were SO STUNNED – they were like hypnotized. Plus other people noticed that something was going on at the dance floor and piece by piece it got CROWNED. About one hour later, when I left the party, the dance floor was FULL!

Later I got also isolated one of those stunned girls. She is a real cutie, for me really like a HB8,5. I used the Adventurous Routine, then used a little trick I have half invented, half taken from Ross Jeffries. She had admitted she and her girlfriends aren’t “party lions” and was just stunned about my “frame”. I told her about my vibe, that you – if you do something exciting – it will make your heart pounding (my two fingers at her chest), but then let a happy feeling slide upwards to your mouth (slide upwards) and make you smiling. Then this happy feeling will keep in your head (here I should have taken her head and kiss her, but I was little blocked). Though I got her phone number, then I hugged her and have given her a kiss, then I said: Let us return to your friends.

I am happy! It’s working and I can improve myself! I hope and now I am confident I will get it!

I love myself! I love myself! I love myself! (For the frame! Try this out at yourself!)

Keep sarging!

TJ

P.S.: Sorry because of my blog post is so long, sometimes hard to read and having an actually REALLY bad English, but it’s midnight, I had a fucking long day with even a test in University which had worried me. I am really tired!

P.P.S.: Keep on your mind: Don’t worry about how screwed you look at your own. Actually I have a really horrible big red spot (looks painful) at my skin (yeah, I will go to the doc because of that!) so that even some other people are asking me out what is going on there. BUT surprisingly this doesn’t change much in your game if your frame is strong enough!

This page is currently under construction

Soon I will release reports about the big jump into the pool of "The Game"! Meanwhile you have to wait and check regularly for my post! Actually I have busy days - next week should be better!

So keep tight!

TJ